The Power of Speaking Out: Overcoming Betrayal Through Sharing Your Story

In the 1857 version of Snow White, the stepmother does not request the Huntsman to return with the girl's heart, as depicted in the film. Instead, she demands Snow White's lungs and liver. When the hunter deceives her by providing the lungs and liver of a young boar, she "boils them in salt" and eats them.

Disney altered the original fairy tale for a younger audience, omitting some unpleasant details. Similarly, in modern versions of the Snow White story, individuals in real life often try to conceal the harsh aspects of their traumatic experiences. The most painful stories often involve close family members or friends who unexpectedly became villains. 

As a result of enduring trauma, many people remain silent, mistaking their silence for a protective measure, like an oxygen mask helping people to breath, and are reluctant to share their stories of betrayal with others. They believe this silence aids them, but in reality, it suffocates their inner voice, which needs to be healed and heard. If this resonates with you, seek the Holy Spirit for the grace to find your voice and the wisdom to know how and with whom to share your traumatic story. 

Many individuals experience a recurring pattern of betrayal with new people they meet. If you've observed such a pattern in your own life, it may be necessary to explore what changes are needed to break the betrayal cycle. An important aspect of this exploration involves addressing past wounds and forgiving those who have betrayed you previously. These explorative journeys are both educational and beneficial for healing and personal growth. 

While you work through past betrayals and permit your heart to grieve and heal internally, seek inspiration from the Holy Spirit for creative tools to assist in this healing journey. If you are addressing painful childhood memories, coloring books could potentially support the healing process.

The next step could be the willingness to pray and intercede for those who have abandoned and betrayed you. The ability to intercede for those who have betrayed you is a transformative gift that changes you from the inside out.

“I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you…” - Matthew 5:44