Exploring Identity Beyond Labels: Who Are You Really?

If someone asked you the question, "Who are you?", how would you reply? Consider your answer carefully—does it genuinely reflect who you believe you are deep down? Were you meant to be more than just a parent, defined by your job, or your interests? When all these labels are removed, what remains? Who are you truly? Today's artistic reflection explores the concept of identity and encourages viewers to examine the reflections of their own hearts.

"You are the fish, not the tail" 2025. Oil on canvas, 40cm x 25cm

The phrase "You are the fish, not the tail" reminds of the blessing from Deuteronomy 28:11: “The Lord will make you the head, not the tail.” This blessing signifies God's assurance to His people that they will be successful and lead the way, rather than follow others.

"You are the fish, not the tail" addresses the issue of identity, specifically the dissatisfaction with being in the "tail" position. It prompts the viewer to challenge the "loser" labels that have been inherited or associated with their identity.

The body of a fish is a sum of different parts. Similarly, a person's identity encompasses various roles, sometimes taking on leadership (head) and at other times serving humbly (tail). 

Interestingly, tails play a crucial role in facilitating movement. Similarly, growth and movement occur when a person learns to serve from a humble position.

The painting encourages viewers to reflect on different aspects of their identity, as well as the sum of all parts. Neither leadership roles nor servant positions define a person. Identity is derived from the combination of various assigned parts. 

In the Bible, fish represent granted dominion, divine provision, and instruments of judgment, but they also symbolize vulnerability. The painting encourages viewers to perceive themselves as a fish rather than just a "head" or "tail".

“You have made people like the fish in the sea, like the sea creatures that have no ruler.” - Habakkuk 1:14