Are You Trying to Win—or Is It Time to Be Refreshed?
Updated: Sep 1
Go Fish is a simple card game often played by children. Players ask one another for cards and try to collect matching sets. Because everyone is expected to tell the truth about the cards they hold, the game depends on honesty.
Sometimes relationships can begin to resemble competitive games. People hide what they are holding, question one another’s motives, or focus on winning instead of understanding. If you have recently found yourself caught in such a situation, perhaps it is time to step back, breathe, and allow your heart to be refreshed.
Today, I invite you to pause and reflect on the latest Heart Reflections painting.
The orange slice resembles a wheel, representing a continuous cycle of giving and receiving. It reminds us that refreshing words and thoughtful actions can bring renewed strength to someone who is tired, discouraged, or in need of kindness.
As you observe the painting, consider your present circumstances and the effect they are having on your heart.
What kind of interaction have you been drawn into? Are you trying to defend yourself, prove something, or win? Could it be time to step away from the game?
Perhaps refreshment will come not through winning, but through choosing a different response. A kind word, a thoughtful gesture, or practical support offered to someone in need may also bring unexpected renewal to your own heart.
This does not mean ignoring unhealthy behavior, tolerating manipulation, or abandoning necessary boundaries. It means refusing to allow competition, suspicion, or hurt to determine the kind of person you become.
You do not have to answer every challenge, prove every point, or continue participating in an exhausting pattern. Sometimes the wisest response is to recognize the game for what it is and choose not to play.
Step away. Allow God to refresh your heart. Then consider how you might become a source of refreshment to someone else.
Sometimes the way out of an exhausting game is simply to stop playing—and begin refreshing.
"A generous person will prosper; whoever refreshes others will be refreshed.” - Proverbs 11:25
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